I have no clear mental image like I'm supposed to have. All I know right now is I want to be out of debt so that I can enjoy a new house or build on to our existing house, pay for my kids' college or at least helping them when they need to start paying their loans, etc. I'm the only one in a family of 4 with a steady income, and find I have some resentment because of that and don't want to. I can make be rich despite any obstacles in my family, corect?

Hi, Kath. First of all, there's no "supposed to" involved here. What you WANT is what matters.

But it looks to me like you've got a really clear mental image of yourself free of debt with a new house and your kids in college, loan-free. And I also see that you have an image of yourself free of resentment of others.

Sounds pretty good to me!

And there are ZERO obstacles in your family. The only obstacles there are in your thinking about your family -- but you can change that if you want to.

Thank you Rebecca! I love your positive attitude. JUST what I needed.

Bless you!
Kath

thanks for sharing Kath.

It was hard to me, to realize what my CMI was.

Sometimes I feel really bad, since I'm almost 30 and still dependent of my Mom, and my Wife.

My CMI is to be Rich, to be able to enjoy with my family and friends, and be able to help others trough my riches!

If a doctor told you that you have a week to live, would you do something different than you are doing today? If so, what would it be?

All the things you want to do are great, but I do believe you also need to have goals that inspire and excite you... Unless paying bills is exciting to you.

What I'm talking about is the stuff that makes you wake-up before you're alarm goes off, the stuff that drives you to get out of bed and not even think about snoozing... Kind of like when you are in love with someone new, and you move around and do things without even thinking, just because they feel great!

Good luck!