Friends,

Why is that despite of focusing positivly, there are times that a fear of failure or unpleasent outcome fleshs in mind? It usually comes in the final moments/stages of a deal.

Then I resort to shift my focus.

Hi Suneel,

Well, straight to the point, its going to happen. It is our Ego thoughts trying to claw back to our awareness.

It's a very natural progression for many of us that a feeling of failure or unpleasant outcomes come up when we are living in the certain way.

My only advice is not to fight it, dwell on it or spend time even contemplating it. When you feel it immediately start doing the work to shift your focus in the moment without any feelings of guilt, etc.

Then move on. It really is that simple. One thing I say to myself, is "thank you little ego, now get back in place"

You may have to shift your focus hundreds if not thousands of time throughout your lifetime.

Appreciation from the Heart,

Richard De Haven

Being aware that you have these feelings is the first start. I have noticed that feeling as well and it has been a deal breaker many times. I just refuse to let it break any more deals for me.

I have noticed that opportunities continue to come up for me though. Do you find the same thing? It is working on the recieving maybe, I think? LOL.

Hi Suneel,
Sounds like your subconscious is in discord with your conscious desires. In order to succeed, I have found it critical to reprogram my old subconscious beliefs. Your FEELINGS are how you know where your subconscious beliefs are at, and how the subconscious mind communicates to us. Consciously, you want to make a deal, but the SUBconscious is saying "YIKES, NO WAY!" So what I do when I feel fear is do EFT. A LOT!!
Doing EFT really opens you up to receiving, so you're right on the money there when you say that you need to work on receiving. And when you're in a state of fear,aka "resistance", you cannot receive.
Here's my playlist that I use all the time:

Julia's Prosperity EFT Playlist
Repetition is critical. That's why Wally says to commit the book to memory, and why Rebecca succeeded in Wally's method. Repetition puts the new info in your subconscious and reprograms the old limiting beliefs which up 'til now have held you back.

There is a wonderful Bob Proctor video which Rebecca sent us the link to in which he explains all this very clearly, and I highly recommend watching it.:
Bob Proctor-Changing Your Paradigm

Just keep at it, eventually the old beliefs will cave, and be replaced with wonderful, new PROSPEROUS ones. You'll know you've succeeded in changing them because even BEFORE the outside stuff changes when you get a wonderful feeling of PEACE. And that's the key-get happy and peaceful FIRST, the rest follows. Why? Because being happy and peaceful means that your SUBCONSCIOUS is in harmony with your desires, and it's the SUBCONSCIOUS that creates our reality.

Love and Light,
Julia