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I can only relay "what worked for me', I cannot actually make it work for you, only you can do that.



You know, Croz, I find the examples so helpful. It's not that I then go and do exactly the same, but your examples give me ideas, and off I go. So thank you!


Wishing more to all and less to none

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I do believe that indeed you can make a CHOICE to CHOOSE for certain specific thoughts that you like to repeat.

Since I wanted to experiment a little with repeating certain thoughts I wrote down that for my Blog I wanted to see more people commenting on my Blogposts. Since I am inclined to compare a Blog with a Restaurant, that when a Restaurant is crowded it probably will be a nicer place than if nobody visits it.
Therefor I want my Blog to be a lot
more crowded.

So for this I wrote something like:

'Because of 'this and that' measures....,

- 'This and that' being: For example one of the measures is that I now use a sub-heading, and a 'Call to Action' to tell my readers that I would like their opinion on certain topics, and I now also simply have a short explaination about how they can put in their comments by clicking the comments-link. -

...., I will create a lot more success than before and I see more and more comments on my Blogs appearing'

Yesterday on my Travel Blog I actually got a
fresh comment, So I don't know if it's O.K. by Wattles to write thoughts down to be able to repeat them, or if I might need to re-phrase my thoughts for better results, nevertheless it looks like it's working.

All the Best,
To your Happy Inspiration,
HP
 
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I found it helpful, to stretch my situation, and physically put myself into the actual world of the wealthy. I would treat myself to coffee at the top coffee shop, ( funnily enough it was not always the best coffee lol) and also stretch myself a bit when I was buying things.

This I found was a way to escape the scarcity thinking. It was always the thought of lack down the track that evoked my decision, even though I actually had enough money to afford it at the time.
Croz


When doing the first few LLs with my study buddy, I came to the same conclusion. How many times have any of us, gone to purchase something and thought, "too expensive, can't afford" of if we are really trying to improve, "I'll get that someday."

I realized that it is important to practice when and where we can, purchasing things we would normally stop ourselves from doing. I don't mean run out and buy furs and diamonds when resources do not warrant that at the moment.

For example, instead of buying the cheapest cut of meat, will it really break the bank to buy the cut of meat you want? If so, find something smaller. If not, make that your splurge that week. And I am following up the previous scarcity thinking by saying/thinking, "God is abundant and blesses me with everything I want and need." Or "all abundance flows to me." Or whatever resonates at the moment.

And it feels good.


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Exactly Dawn.

And when you do it without the inner conversation, you have cracked it.

Well Done

Abundance to All

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So, again, why do I forget to do this practice?

I´d like to pick up on this this conversation if it´s still live Phil?

I´ve been thinking about what seemed like Capt Jack´s main issue. About maintaining a feeling attitude of one´s CMI whilst handling reality as it comes.

The question I have is, if one´s feeling attitude is not being sustained then have we really shifted our vibration to match our CMI?
If the results I´m getting are not a match then have I set my CMI, my expectations too high or are my beliefs preventing the results showing up?

The way I´ve come to understand it is this, what impresses the subconscious and makes it real is intentional energy so charged with belief and desire that our actions are inspired and there´s no room for the fear factor.
Like Tom Strong said, "we can get to a point where we enjoy (feel good about) the people and the interuptions! When we do that we are feeling good all the time!"

My point is we´ve matched our vibration with our CMI + the old vibration no longer trips us up or interrups our flow. We can handle reality however stark and in our face it may be because our dominant focus is on our goal and "we are on our way"!

This may sound like "desire" coming before thinking but I believe the question is, how do we generate that charge of intention, that comes from clear thoughts around our CMI?

It´s probably different for every one. I´m learning this comes best for me in the early hours and last thing at night when the subconscious is receptive to impression, especially "DAY-DREAM BELIEVING", that this CMI is so real with added delight, congratulations and gratitude into the mix.

If the results we want are not showing up then maybe our "sub-conscious genius" is not accepting the impression - for one reason or another. Could be you just don´t beleive it can work, or believe you deserve it, OR - this I believe is crucial - your CMI isn´t a match with your Joy. Have you allowed yourself to really identify your true gifts and talents, how you uniquely enjoy helping others + adding more life to all and less to none? The vibration is in that. It may not be what you are presently doing at all, especially if there is any effort involved. If we are really clear in this part of SGRnet and instead of saying "I am a salesman" can say "The way I enjoy helping people is by .... " and impress the experience of this on the sub-conscious "no matter what" inspirations follow and success will inevitably come, is on it´s way!

I´m learning from this sharing - thank you !

Jonathan


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All these posts have been so helpful! I am finding I sometimes move away from feeling my CMI, and I am going to create some Affirmations to help me stay focused! I especially like "I love thnking and feeling rich, and I do it often!".
 
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All these posts have been so helpful! Affirmations to help me stay focused! I especially like "I love thnking and feeling rich, and I do it often!".


Hi Mellena,

That's my favorite affirmation lately too (Thanks, Phil). I have made an appointment reminder in my Blackberry that pops up several times a day that says just that!

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Great idea, Merryanne!!! I also write my Affirmations on 3x5 cards, and read them throughout the day.
 
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Phil Thanks for this post. I feel this way often that I am not doing all I can or in the right way. I have thought a lot about this and maybe I just am not doing it enough. ...

I just keep trying.

CaptJack,

Abraham-Hicks talk about mainly using ‘emotional leverage’ to create what we want:

“One who is connected to the stream is more powerful than millions who are not. So if you take the time to do the big thing of aligning, it's like a big wheel and here's this hub in the center of the wheel and you are just turning it a little bit but it's turning the wheel really far out there on the edges. So as you are dealing with the energy alignment you are facilitating yourself in terms of action in a very powerful way. It's huge, huge leverage.

“Your action has nothing to do with your abundance! Your abundance is a response to your vibration. Of course, your belief is part of your vibration. So if you believe that action is part of what brings your abundance, then you've got to unravel that.”

“Take the time to line up the Energy first, and action becomes inconsequential. If you don't take the time to line up the Energy, if you don't find the feeling place of what you're looking for, not enough action in the world will make any difference.”

“When you don't take the time to line up your energy, then you are out there on the raw and ragged edge and now you are depending on the paltry benefit that action can give you and we want you to understand the benefit that "action only" can give you is paltry.”

I think A-H are correct, though most people can’t fathom the idea. For example, there was a famous story told after Jim Thorpe, the famous American Indian Olympian, won the decathlon. It was said that on the boat over, he would be seen lying on one of the deck lounge chairs, while his teammates ran round the ship’s deck. Team members complained and finally the coach asked Jim what he was doing. He said (something to the effect,… I don’t remember the exact quote), “I’m practicing winning my events.”

I’ve read the same about other top notch athletes. Now, does this mean they never physically trained? No, But it does mean they put an emphasis on experiencing BEFOREHAND what it was like to win in their event(s).

Here’s how Arnold Scwharzeneggar spoke of it:

"When I was very young, I visualized myself being and having what it was I wanted. Mentally I never had any doubts about it. The mind is really so incredible. Before I won my first Mr. Universe, I walked around the tournament like I owned it. The title was already mine. I had won it so many times in my mind that there was no doubt I would win it. Then, when I moved on to the movies, the same thing. I visualized myself being a successful actor and earning big money. I could feel and taste success. I just knew it would all happen." - Arnold Schwarzenegger (from John Kehoe’s website http://www.learnmindpower.com/)

Excerpt from a 1976 interview between a Mr. Chandler and Arnold Schwarzenegger: Chandler asked Arnold what he was going to do after he retired from bodybuilding. "I'm going to be the number-one box-office star in all of Hollywood," he calmly responded. Remember, this was when few people outside bodybuilding knew he existed.

Chandler had to fight to keep a straight face as he was asking how he planned to do that. Arnold's explanation seemed "ridiculously simple," but Chandler never forgot it: "What you do is create a vision of who you want to be, and then live into that picture as if it were already true."

“What I am most happy about is that I can zero in on a vision of where I want to be in the future. I can see it so clearly in front of me when I daydream that it's almost a reality. Then I get this easy feeling, and I don't have to be uptight to get there because I already feel like I'm there, that it's just a matter of time." Arnold Schwarzenegger (courtesy of Chuck "lycoming260" lycoming260@excite.com)

In your situation, I think you’d have to study to thoroughly learn the various aspects of your business. I think you've pretty much done this. But along with that, it seems to me you have to practice feeling what it would be like to succeed and achieve the ends you want, until those successful (peaceful, happy, relaxed) feelings become an integral part of who you are.

Phil



Hi Phil,

Here is an example of yet another person whose CMI came to be. Samuel Alito (U.S. Supreme Court Judge).

http://njmonthly.com/articles/...reme-confidence.html

Samuel Alito claims he was only joking when, in his senior yearbook at Princeton University, he wrote that he hoped to someday “warm a seat on the Supreme Court.” No one was laughing 34 years later, when the Trenton-born judge was sworn in as the Garden State’s fifth contribution to the country’s highest bench.

Wonder why he said he was "just joking". Clearly he was not.

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But now I want to deviate slightly from SOGR because I’m wondering ‘WHY’. Why, if I want some things very much, do I NOT regularly practice feeling what it’s like to have what I want? Is it for lack of desire? I don’t think so. I think I want these things very much. When I DO remember to think about them with feeling, I experience wonderful feelings, like great feelings of freedom, and ease, and delight, happiness, safety, security and peace of mind, and the feeling of how wonderful it is to be able to freely choose to have virtually anything I want.

So, again, why do I forget to do this practice? Is it disbelief? Do I believe it makes no difference? No. I believe it DOES make a difference. In fact, I’ve read rich people state this over and over and over. For example:

“All you have to do is get into vibrational harmony with your desire, and your desire must be given to you - and the Universe will find endless ways of bringing it to you.” Abraham-Hicks

“Tending to your own thoughts and feelings and letting yourself become the perfect match to your desires brings you joy and peace. And I promise you that your own joy and peace are the keys to everything -- EVERYTHING -- you want, for yourself and others.” Rebecca Fine


Phil,

I don't know if you already have found a way to make the practicing work for you, but among the people you quoted there is for me a big difference between the approach of Abraham-Hicks and the one of Rebecca.

For me it doesn't work to only focus on my CMI several times a day because I'm not always able to feel the joy that it generates during the rest of the day as well.
And if I don't connect with that joy during the rest of the day, my CMI remains a sort of isle in the sea of my daily life instead of an inspiration for the rest of my daily life.

I suppose Jerry and Esther Hicks assume that focusing on your desire will create such enormous joy that it will fuel you for the rest of the day (as does Bob Proctor), but for me it doesn't always work that way.

However, what does work for me, is constantly shifting to joy and peace during the day. Experiencing that I can shift my consciousness always in all circumstances to the point of view that brings me most joy or peace, no matter what happens during my day, is for me a way to experience that I consciously create my life. And when experiencing this all day joy, it's easier for me to stay in the joyful feelings of my CMI as well.
I still do pay specific attention to my CMI as well, but the rest of the day I focus on joy in the now.

That's my way of handling this.

Good luck!

Orlando


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there is for me a big difference between the approach of Abraham-Hicks and the one of Rebecca.

Really, Orlando? Because for me there's no difference at all. I don't remember ever hearing Estherham Big Grin say anything at all about "focusing on your desire." I have heard a LOT about simply turning away from thoughts that don't feel good and toward thoughts that do (or that at least feel a bit better than the not-so-good ones when those are rampant).

That's pretty much the same as what you said: "constantly shifting to joy and peace during the day."

The only thing that's a bit different is that there are times for most of us (all!) when something has happened that makes joy and peace seem very far off. And you can't make a quantum leap from feeling awful all the way to joy and peace. But you can consciously choose to begin to shift a bit. Baby steps when necessary. As long as you turn and head in the direction you want to go, you're doing great -- and you'll begin to feel better and lighter.

Just a little ease, a little lightening up, a little relief when things are challenging. And full-out delight when appreciation when you gather enough momentum in that direction.


Love & blessings, and, of course--
EXPECT Success!
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To Everyone,


I understand what you guys mean. At times it's hard to 'feel' like you have it already, especially when in reality you don't have it yet. And when you don't have it, how would you 'feel' good about having it in your possessions? When you don't even know what it feels like to begin with. So what I do is to go test drive that car I've longed for, go to an open house and walk around a house similar to the one I want. And don't stop there! Imagine it's yours, how would you feel about it, when you're cuddled up with your loved ones enjoying hot chocolate in the living room on a cold winter's night? Memorize that feeling, it makes it that much more real and easy to follow Wally's advice.


I was once told this story about "Rainmakers" or as I call them, "Dream Makers":

Legend has it that a young Indian boy asked an honored Indian rainmaker when he knew it was time to stop his rain dance. The elder bent down the boy and whispered, "The dance is over when it rains. I just keep dancing until then."

Good advice to any one who wants to achieve their dreams. Just keep dancing, feeling, and acting like the success that you are, and surely you'll be heading in the right direction!


"Thank you, Father, for my wealth, health and everything else!"
 
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Exactly Dawn.

And when you do it without the inner conversation, you have cracked it.

Well Done

Abundance to All

Croz


I can't wait for it to become unconscious. Darn it, if we did not skimp on something a month ago. I really wanted something else. Well, we had a recent windfall, so I am taking back what I did not quite want, and getting what I want. Smile


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