I have a goal but am not sure if it is classed as taking control or not. I want my girlfriend to come and live with me in my house and she actually wants to come and live with me as well but the problem is a certain set of circumstances that I wont go into are stopping her from actually being able to come and live with me at this moment in time. She is defiantly going to come and live with me sometime in the future but when that is we both donâ™t know. And the other problem is that when she does come and live with me someone else is going to hurt although I cant stop that. The way I look at it is that she is hurting not being able to live with me and so am I. What I have made my goal is that my girlfriend will be able to come and live with me quicker than we had originally planned since itâ™s something we both want. I just imagine what it will be like when we are living together and how I am going to feel I really desire to have this happen and I know she does to. Am hoping the universe will be able to sort out the circumstances somehow since I do not have any control over them myself. I want to know what people here think about this goal is it ok to have a goal like this?

Hi,

Although your goal isn't about getting "money" it is about being rich in another sense. I would be very careful how you dream or visualize... whether you are using control over someone else to get this girl to come to live with you or not is going to be very important. If you are just visualizing her living with you and the two of you being happy, then I believe that you are ok, especially since she wants to live with you (according to what you've told us). If, however, you are visualizing something about whoever it is that's stopping her right now, I'd say you're on pretty shakey ground. Wattles does say not to try to control other people with your mind. If this girl really wants to live with you, then you are not trying to control her. If she doesn't, then I think you might be crossing that line.

Those are my thoughts on it at any rate. Good luck... and best wishes.

Live in Light,
Coccinella

Hi Coccinella

Thatâ™s good then because am only visualizing me and her living together and the way I think it will probably be and both of us being happy. Am not visualizing anything about other people doing things or the circumstances changing that are stopping her from living with me except for the fact she would now be living with me.

Thanks for your reply and help.

Peace