Hi ladies and gentlemen. I was wondering if you could answer a question for me. I have understood from numerous sources that if you send your vision of perfection to the universe these things will come to you, including love. I know that Mr Wattle said you should not try to change the destiny of another person using this technique because they have their own path in life, even if your wish for that person is to their advancement....but how is it different if I hold onto the vision of marrying a specific person than if I believe in my heart that I will own a certain house that is presently not for sale or that I establish a business and become successful? These things all impact on the lives of others.

Hi Canadian,

If you think and act the way described in the SOGR you will have the best possible impact on the lives of others, and not by trying to control anyone else but yourself.

If you want a certain house, would you lock onto this specific house, or person, or something else in your vision and shut down every other channel through which the universe could provide you? What if there's an even better house out there? For all we know this house could be built today, or you could start build it tomorrow.

There is no lack, and there is no lack of LOVE. Think of it as a flow, give and receive (who could ever control love), open up the channels.

I wish you success!

Hi Canadian,

You can't have a vision of marrying a specific person as that would be interfering with their freewill. Also, how do you know that this would be to their advancement? Maybe they're not meant to advance yet or maybe their future lies elsewhere, but you can't have any say in that or try to interfere with their path in life. What you can do is list the specific qualities that you would like from a partner and imagine that you have such a person in your life already.

I agree with what Starscream's saying too about a specific house. You can imagine living in such a house, but not a particular house because again, I imagine that would be you trying to interfere with the current owner's freewill. Maybe the house would never be your own because they might never decide to sell it and you may be shutting yourself out to other possibilities. Whereas, if you imagine yourself in a house with a similar design, then something similar or better will turn up, or, as Starscream said, you may decide to have one built to your own design. The possibilities are endless if you can be a little less specific.

Angel hugs x

Thank you for your response. I hope it wasn't an inappropriate question. I think the reason I didn't quite know was because I read Jack Cannfield's book The Principles of Success and in it he discusses an acquaintance, a multi-millionaire, who had a vision board where he attached pictures of everything of material value he wanted to own. He cut a picture out of Dream Homes magazine of his dream home and when he was moving his office an employee took out his boards and there was the picture of the house he now owned from four years prior.

Hi Canadian,

No, not at all. You will find a lot of examples on here where people (myself included) have had pictures of things and they have manifested themselves in our lives. It's recommended on the online course too to make yourself up a picture book of your CMI and this definitely helps me with the visualising.

I have a picture of 'my house' too but it's not a specific house. There's probably a few of these have been built or are still to be built and any one will do me! As long as you're not looking at a particular house at 123 Main Road and saying 'I want that one'. Maybe I picked you up wrong, but I thought that's what you meant when you said the house wasn't up for sale.

Angel hugs x

Hey Angel Eyes, you were right. I thought that Jack Cannfield was stipulating that you could have anything you wanted in a material sense and I just wanted to clarify. I understand now that you need to have a clear vision but don't involve others even if it is your significant other or someone you love, even something owned by someone else. I look forward to starting the e-course. I'm starting tonight!!!