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hat traffic is terrible at times and I find that I have to guard the space in front of me, not allowing others to cut in front of me.

Consider the possibility that YOUR thought -- being on guard -- is what draws this experience to you.

(And, yeah, sounds pretty darned competitive to me. Otherwise, what difference would it make if someone got ahead of you? What if you tried just INVITING people to go ahead instead? How might that feel different?)

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The dynamic of off-road and on the road politeness is very interesting.

I think it's the false illusion that we control a machine that can cause other people to act the way we want them,when we know it's all appearances

I have really reduced dramatically my on road aggression ever since studying SOGR and I keep noticing only the good things now, courteous drivers, smooth traffic, on time travels

Much blessings

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Originally posted by Coach Pete:
Everyday before I get in the car, I visualize a safe and trouble free drive. I state this affirmation. "I love that the road is clear and that traffic flows smoothly. I give thanks that I swiftly and safely travel to my destination."

Thanks Coach Pete...I was wondering how to visualise or affirm for better traffic and there you go! Providing the answer. :-)